YouTube personality Lena Nersesian—a.k.a. “Lena the Plug”—first gained notoriety over the summer when she openly admitted to allowing her best friend Emily “try” her boyfriend’s penis on for size.
“Friends tell each other everything,” Nersessian said in the viral video, which currently has more than 10 million views. “So Emily has seen pictures of Adam’s dick, she knows all about our sex life, I tell her everything. And now, I don’t have to tell her, she can just try his penis.”
Now, the YouTuber has once again found herself in the center of the internet spotlight thanks to a brand-new collaboration with her boyfriend Adam, where the two share their tips and tricks to having a successful threesome. Here are just a few pieces of three-way wisdom they shared:
1. Your Focus Should Be on Your Partner
“You need to keep centered on the fact that this experience is supposed to heighten you and your partner having sex, not be an alternative,” Adam explained. “Focus on your partner and show her she’s the center of your attention.”
2. Communication and Honesty Are Key
According to the couple, communication is key—and you should never push the idea of a threesome onto an unwilling partner. “Never push the issue until it’s awkward,” Adam said.
“I wouldn’t bring it up unless the girl has expressed interest in hooking up with other girls in general,” Lena added. (Here's what to do if she agrees to a threesome.)
2. Communication and Honesty Are Key
According to the couple, communication is key—and you should never push the idea of a threesome onto an unwilling partner. “Never push the issue until it’s awkward,” Adam said.
“I wouldn’t bring it up unless the girl has expressed interest in hooking up with other girls in general,” Lena added. (Here's what to do if she agrees to a threesome.)
4. Use Protection
Of all Lena and Matt's threesome advice, perhaps their most important is to make sure you bring protection. (We recommend these LELO HEX Condoms.)
“This is a conversation you want to have beforehand,” Adam said. “It’s something you really want to be on the same page with.”
